Sometimes as people we miss the meaning of things because we choose not to be objective but instead take everything personally. When we realize that "the world doesn't revolve around us" we are free to see things as they are. When we let go of the self centered view of the world we are much less likely to be slighted by every seemingly hurtful thing that others do to us. That doesn't mean we don't have a right to our feelings or to protect our hearts but maybe it is in the name of that very same protection that we ought to let go of taking so many things so personally.
We each have a purpose in life and that purpose drives us. Do not feel bad when someone else's purpose seems to drive them away from You. That usually has little to do with You. And often it isn't driving them away from You at all. But maybe it is and that's great too because it frees You to fulfill Your purpose. And find people of like mindedness with whom to do the same.
But that's just me...Bless,